A Relationship Psychology Assessment Platform
Understand how you experience love, uncertainty, and connection.
LUMA is a multidimensional relationship assessment designed to map patterns of relational uncertainty, self-worth, relationship security, separation concerns, and future commitment.
For psychological self-reflection, education, and research purposes. Not a clinical diagnosis.
Your Relationship Psychological Map
Love anxiety is not one thing.
LUMA maps six distinct dimensions, each tied to a different question your mind is trying to answer.
Love Attainment Anxiety
爱情获得焦虑
“Can I find or obtain love?”
Concern about whether one will find or be chosen for a romantic relationship.
Relationship Initiation Anxiety
关系启动焦虑
“What happens if I express romantic interest?”
Anxiety tied to expressing interest, asking someone out, or escalating a connection.
Relationship Certainty Anxiety
关系确定性焦虑
“What are we?”
Sensitivity to ambiguity about relationship identity, exclusivity, and the partner's true intentions.
Lovability Anxiety
可被爱性焦虑
“Am I truly worthy of being loved?”
Doubt about one's own worth, replaceability, and whether one's authentic self is acceptable.
Loss and Separation Anxiety
失去与分离焦虑
“What if they leave?”
Concern about abandonment, being replaced, distance, or the relationship ending.
Commitment and Future Anxiety
承诺与未来焦虑
“Can this relationship survive real life?”
Worry about whether the relationship can withstand real-world constraints over time.
Why, not just what
Understand not only what you feel, but what may be driving it.
Relationship context, individual vulnerability, and sociocultural pressure shape how you appraise romantic threat — and that appraisal shapes which anxiety pattern shows up.
Your relationship psychology, mapped across multiple dimensions.
A preview of the structured profile LUMA generates from your responses.
Primary Pattern
Relationship Certainty Anxiety
Secondary — Loss and Separation Anxiety
Your responses suggest that uncertainty about relationship definition and stability contributes more strongly to your relationship anxiety than concern about obtaining a relationship.
(provisional research scale)
How it works
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Tell us about your relationship context
A few questions about your current situation so your results are interpreted in context.
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Complete the multidimensional assessment
Answer research-grounded items at your own pace, one question at a time.
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Receive your relationship profile
A structured, six-dimension profile with threat processing and pattern analysis.
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Understand your primary patterns
See which anxiety pattern is most salient for you right now, and why.
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Track changes over time
Reassess periodically to see how your relationship psychology shifts.
Science & Methodology
Built on a theoretical multi-stage relational threat model.
LUMA is currently in Research Beta. The scales are undergoing validation — qualitative interviews, item pool development, expert review, exploratory and confirmatory factor analysis, reliability and validity testing, and cross-cultural validation.
Read the methodology